Ok, first of all cheating is not OK! And because you got back together with her, you should discuss the affair in detail until you are satisfied with the answers and reasons why she did it, and you have to make sure she is sorry about it and that you guys learned from this experience together. If you want to work on this relationship you need to communicate what you feel. If she refuses to discuss it, she does not love you and she will do it to you again. So, if you want to make this work, open up and say what you feel about it and ask questions. You need to heal, and if she does not help you, it's not worth being together. If someone truly loves you she does not cheat! Goodluck! Signed, Psychologist - Online Advices
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