Hello there, first off I just want to let you know that at 28 years old your life is barely starting. However, it would be time for you to move out of your grandparents house, and start living by yourself. This would be a good start in order to boost your self-image. You talk about having great jobs in the past, I suggest you take a few classes at the local college in order to find out what your passion is, it took me 1 year of college to realize that Psychology is what I love. In terms of your life not working out, don't be so pessimistic, think of all the health and good things you have going for you, count your blessing and approach life with an optimistic view. Some physical exercise might help you in that sector. If you feel stuck, unstuck yourself, do a plan, and follow it, you cannot cruise through life waiting for something to happen, you must make it happen for yourself. If you want something else from life, decide what it is that you want, make a planning, and go get it. The reason you have no friends is because you are probably introverted, and do not approach people, maybe you do not go out that often, or you are shy, etc. Whatever it is you need to figure it out and remove it from your behavior. And remember, fear is your enemy, embrace life and face your fear, follow your dreams and innovate don't imitate. Life is too short for fear and complains, make it happen, and take action. You are your own best friend, support yourself and go further. Good luck! Signed, Psychologist - Online Advices
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Dec 16, 2010 02:39 PM