hi,im a 24 year old girl.i started to go out with a guy when i was 19 and he was 27.we moved in together very quickly.things were not so great because we were very different,from different backgrounds and cultures.still we got along quite well even if as a couple we had some issues.yet we didnt break up,from my part it was because i loved him and was hoping for things to get better.from his part im not quite sure but i think he loved me also.one of my issues i had was that i wanted him to be more committed but he always said he needs more time.we were fighting very often but yet we didnt break up.finally after 4 years ''being together'' i gave him an ultimatum to either we break up or i need him to be more committed.we eventually broke up with the idea of living apart but trying to figure out stuff because even if he was afraid of commitment he didnt want to let me go.he told me that he needs some time and space for him to figure out stuff and be a better person for me.we have been living apart since 1 and a half year now and we still meet each other everyday.we still love each other but we are not together.he didnt make up his mind yet and now i lost all hope of it and most of the time dont care anymore.i tried to move on,make plans for the future,meet new guys but he is still very important in my life.since a few months i started to put myself first and i actually felt good and happy after these years.i am going back to my country in 6 months and i dont think we will meet again and this makes me very sad.i dont know how to deal with it and also he didnt give up on me,he still gives me hope that we will be together.he sounds so genuine that part of me believes that.im afraid that i'll be deeply disppointed and hurt.i have 6 months left here and i dont know how to think anymore and how to deal with all this.i feel trapped and i will be very grateful if i can get an unbiased opinion about my situation. thank you in advance..
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