Hi Elise, and thank you for writing here for advice. I will try to be very objective, as you were very detailed in your description of facts. First off, it takes courage to do what you did, to reach out for advice, so we appreciate you being here and asking. Now, as far as the entire boy story, from a psychological perspective, when someone touches you, that means they like you. Not just like you, but like you a lot. Also, the stares mean "come on", it's an evolutionary way of flirting in order to get you to reach out and respond to the provocation. So, bottom line, this guy likes you a lot, and he wants to be with you. He gave you signs, and since you have not reacted to them, he felt rejected and retracted in a defense mechanism way to cope with the rejection. So, if your question is if he likes you, yes he does. I would suggest trying to respond to his "signals" in the same way he sends them. If he smiles, smile back, if he stares , stare back, he touches, touch back, and so on and so forth. It can come out great between the two of you, and you have to remember that nothing is a coincidence or a thing of a chance. He likes you and he wants to be with you but does not have the experience to approach you. So, if you really want this guy, go for it. Try to respond to what he does and says in the same way. If you manage to mirror his moves and words, you will be able to get him for your self in no time. Good luck and write back more. Thank you for sharing, this was a very good request! Best regards, Psychologist - OnlineAdvices.com
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