Hello there Zoey, I am guessing from your request that these rumors are some unpleasant ones, right? I recommend you go out and confront those friends that are avoiding you, but do it one on one, not in public, make sure it is only you and the friend around, it will be best this way. What you want to do is collect as much information and proof that these rumors and just that, rumors, and try to convince your friends that they are not true. Usually a true friend will look for an excuse to listen you out, if they value your friendship. If this will not work, I suggest you let those friends go, a friend that believes others instead of you, is not really a friend, but more of a strager with "friend" status. If you want a more detail advice on this email me at psychologist@onlineadvices.com and explain in detail the issue at hand, what kind of rumors, who are these friends, how long you knew them, etc. The important thing is to stay true to yourself and keep your head up, respect yourself and others will respect you, because respect is all this comes down to. Good luck! Signed, Psychologist - Online Advices
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