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Hello, uHmmm i really need ur help im a girl whoz never felt in love before.. but for the 1st time i did.. theres a guy he =s my frnd but he has no interest in me.. but i love him.. tried many ways plz help me out ill do whatever ull say and work all this and keep doing what u say.. just make that guy my bf this means alot! plz reply!! thanks :) 

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Hello there, first of all what you need to do is to open up to him and tell him in private how you feel about him. Make sure that you find the right moment for it, do it while in a romantic setting, when the subject goes towards love and friendship naturally. Second of all, you have to pay attention to his body language and his words to realize if he is also feeling the same thing about you. Last but not least, please reply to this message what do you mean by "fall in love" what do you feel about this guy? What do you like about him? And why him and not another one? What is so special about this one? It is important for me to better advise you further. You said you tried many ways, how did you tried? Can you elaborate on the subject? Also it would be helpful if you could describe your friendship a little more, how long have you known each other? How have you met? How old are you? What are your social settings? Etc... The more information you provide, the better I can offer you an advice.... Good luck!

Advice by Psychologist at Nov 15, 2009 12:30 PM

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Hmmm Ok I am 15 and hes 15 too.... I'm in my 2nd year of 0-levels.. Im in pakistan and I study in Roots International School.... Well we met in this class this is my 1st year in this school so it is his.. hes my class fellow... I never fall for boys.... Not easily.. This is guy, i didnt fall for his looks.. whenever i talk to him or hear his name a rush of excitement runs all over my body.. I start smiling.. I dont mind whatever he says... He doesnt like me.. Like i just asked him to hang out with me.... he thought i was asking him out which i actually was he said look i just wanna be frndx with everyone this year... and soo i told him that i just want to hang out with him as frnds.. he doesnt reply to my messages.. and btw he never gave me his number.. i got it from somewhere... i never fall for any boy but he makes me feel different someone special i act so casual infront of him no formal acts... like great frnds.... but he even tells me about his latest crushes and i also know about his ex..! Even though its just been 1 month we know each other only.. He makes me crazy... But one of my other frnd who likes him too... they were alot rumours about him and my frnd..! but the werent true she liked being teased while he didnt.... but he told my frnd during chat... that he doesnt understand why every girl falls for him. shes like tell me the names... and me and my frnd was one of them.. my frnd told him a lie that she doesnt like him.. and i did the same.. were frndx if i tell him i like him he wud just end the frndship... he doesnt even recieve my calls... :/ thats all... :/

Advice by ramzbebo at Feb 6, 9904 12:58 PM

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what can I say? it seems that this guy either is a player and he likes to keep himself available so he can go out with more then 1 girl, or he is simply not that in to you... either way, you need to take the signals like not answering to your messages, the fact that he told you he is not interested, very serious. I recommend you let things go, and see where they take you, do not force his hand, you will look desperate. usually if a guy likes you he will chase you, so if he does not, maybe the reality is right there for you to see, it is probably time that you let this one go and find another guy that makes you feel the way you feel, because after all, he makes you feel no way, you are the one who makes yourself feel anyway while with him, it is all in your head, so change your attitude and good things will follow. good luck!

Advice by Psychologist at Feb 6, 9653 12:58 PM

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I know exactly how you feel, I advise you to take it slow and be your self, don't try to be who he wants you to be.

Advice by Carmen at Nov 20, 2009 03:18 PM

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if he keeps giving you hints that he is not interested then you should just leave at that. Because sometimes friendships dont really lead into relationships. But if you treasure your friendship with him then just be his friend and tell him at the same time how you feel..At least you told him then let him take it from there. If he sees that you are not trying to pursue the issue then he might just think about what you told him. But be interested in other guys too, dont keep yourself isolated then maybe if he sees that your getting interested in someone else, then you just might find out how he really feels about you. He might be jealous or he might be just not do anything.. Either way you will know how he feels about you soon after that..good luck...

Advice by reeny684 at Feb 12, 2010 06:29 PM

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