ok, first it's good that you are getting along great, this is a good begining. you have to remember that respect comes from within and has nothing to do with the looks, clothes are something you can change, and socioeconomic background should not be an issue. This is just a superficial view of the world, and if you continue on this line of thinking you will become shallow and unhappy. Why don't you send them some money or clothes to your liking? The value of humans comes from their being, and has nothing to do with material things. So my advise is to overlook this little superficial aspect of the relationship and to concentrate on the deep bosom qualities, and other mental and spiritual things. And be very careful how you put this subject in discussion, you might just get it to blow in your face as you being materialistic and superficial. Goodluck!
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Nov 23, 2009 12:00 PM