ok, if you have suspicions that the partner is unfaitfhful and she has unusual behaviour, it is most likely that she is having an affair. you can either spy on her, or you can confront her, but request clarification to all your doubts and if something does not make sense, she is cheating on you. look for clues of lying such as hand touching her face when talking or the ear, covering her mouth, or touching her nose, scratching the neck or looking in other directions, no eye contact, etc. also observe her showering habits, her wardrobe, if any of this changed recently, she is having an affair. going out with the "girlfriends" is another clue. so its up to you how you wanna go about it. as far as re-igniting the spark, go out dating with her, small surprises such as flowers, gifts, poetry, dinners, traveling, anything can help. but mostly a women is attracted to confident independent men. the more dependent of her you are, the less she wants you. the more you love her the less she wants you. so it's tricky. I recommand visiting a bookstore and looking through the Psychology / Self Help section, you might find something for you. If you need more help on exact issues, observations or dialogs you have with her, write again here. Goodluck!
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Nov 20, 2009 07:50 PM
