The question here is WHY don't you want to be homosexual anymore. There are many factors that are involved in this issue, but from your short request, the first one that comes to mind is that you are sick and tired of being treated as an outcast. Here is what you can do: if you do not wish to be homosexual anymore, is a very though one, because you are hardwired this way, so there are not too many things you can do. However, you can change your behavior of being a homosexual by getting involved in heterosexual activities, such as dating girls, have sex with girls, and so on. One strong recommendation I have for you at this time is this: don't worry about what other think. Try to be good to yourself, and accept who you are. There is nothing wrong with being gay, and by coming here and posting your request shows that you are an open man that wants a better life. Embrace your sexuality and be true to yourself and others. Consider it a gift for being gay, and enjoy every minute of it. It might be time for you to come out of the closet and show everyone you are proud of who you really are. Your sexuality is strong and healthy. Do not let any bigot tell you otherwise. Just make sure that you do not depend on others acceptance for you to live the life you want to have. Search this movie out: Shut Up and Kiss me. It will help you understand what you feel better. Stay strong, stay healthy and stay honest. You are a great person, do not let anybody tell you otherwise. Being gay is not a choice, is a state of fact, and it is who you are. So enjoy it and live your life as a exclamation not as an explanation. Good luck! Signed, Psychologist - Online Advices
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