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  <title>he told me that is x is pregenats4mnts now and we have been going out for that 4 mnt his he honest with me </title>
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    <![CDATA[he told me that is x is pregenats4mnts now and we have been going out for that 4 mnt his he honest with me <br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/56/nono">nono</a><br />on 09-03-2010<br>Category: Relationships<br>Views: 12 | Online Advices: 1<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>im 20 gay and im in love with my very atractive femele boss she has expressed some interest but she is also very married i have no idea of what to do???</title>
  <link>http://www.onlineadvices.com/Affair-Advice/im-20-gay-and-im-in-love-with-my-very-atractive-femele-boss-she-has-expressed-some-interest-but-she-is-also-very-married-i-have-no-idea-of-what-to-do|49</link>
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    <![CDATA[im 20 gay and im in love with my very atractive femele boss she has expressed some interest but she is also very married i have no idea of what to do???<br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/57/Lezgirl">Lezgirl</a><br />on 08-03-2010<br>Category: Affair<br>Views: 4 | Online Advices: 0<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>have beening going out with this guy for 4 manths now just the outerday he told me how mach he loves me n that he does not want to loose me and that i should undastand he then he told me that is x gir</title>
  <link>http://www.onlineadvices.com/Relationships-Advice/have-beening-going-out-with-this-guy-for-4-manths-now-just-the-outerday-he-told-me-how-mach-he-loves-me-n-that-he-does-not-want-to-loose-me-and-that-i-should-undastand-he-then-he-told-me-that-is-x-gir|48</link>
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    <![CDATA[have beening going out with this guy for 4 manths now just the outerday he told me how mach he loves me n that he does not want to loose me and that i should undastand he then he told me that is x girlfriend his 4 manths pregenata what should i do coz i love he to much ?<br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/56/nono">nono</a><br />on 08-03-2010<br>Category: Relationships<br>Views: 8 | Online Advices: 1<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>first i would like to introduced my self i am emma(emmanuel) gotera jr 17 up stainer at the third sex in other word im a gay i never been have a commitment how i wish to have coz many of my fri</title>
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    <![CDATA[first i would like to introduced my self i am emma(emmanuel) gotera jr 17 up stainer at the third sex in other word im a gay i never been have a commitment how i wish to have coz many of my friends already had a boyfriend i know its too difficult for me to someone who can love for what i am and not for what i have in part of this i have a lot of crush and no one of them knows about it coz im too shy to hide to what i feel inside hope you can help me courage my self not to lean in my shadow and be what like my friend is tnx a lot and more power      
 <br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/54/emma G.">emma G.</a><br />on 01-03-2010<br>Category: Relationships<br>Views: 18 | Online Advices: 1<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>how can i forgot to love the man who owns my heart?how can i stop to fall my tears everytime i think of him that his not mine now?how can i start my lifeif he is my life?and how can i accept that he </title>
  <link>http://www.onlineadvices.com/Love-Advice/how-can-i-forgot-to-love-the-man-who-owns-my-hearthow-can-i-stop-to-fall-my-tears-everytime-i-think-of-him-that-his-not-mine-nowhow-can-i-start-my-lifeif-he-is-my-lifeand-how-can-i-accept-that-he-|44</link>
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    <![CDATA[how can i forgot to love the man who owns my heart?how can i stop to fall my tears everytime i think of him that his not mine now?how can i start my lifeif he is my life?and how can i accept that he never comeback with me?hope that only brain have amnesiainstead heart too<br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/51/zheltin">zheltin</a><br />on 01-03-2010<br>Category: Love<br>Views: 11 | Online Advices: 1<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>tnx  zheltin if you just only knew he just always taken me for grantedhe said to me that he doesnt lov me anymore</title>
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    <![CDATA[tnx  zheltin if you just only knew he just always taken me for grantedhe said to me that he doesnt lov me anymore<br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/52/rean23">rean23</a><br />on 26-02-2010<br>Category: Breakup<br>Views: 26 | Online Advices: 1<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>help me pleaseim so tired of feeling this wayso tired of cryinghow can i let go of the person i love the most</title>
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    <![CDATA[help me pleaseim so tired of feeling this wayso tired of cryinghow can i let go of the person i love the most<br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/52/rean23">rean23</a><br />on 25-02-2010<br>Category: Loss<br>Views: 24 | Online Advices: 3<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>hi girlyou know what? were at the same situationiam a girl who also never had a commitment even beforebut for the first time i fall in-love to voice on one man i never use to knowyes its j</title>
  <link>http://www.onlineadvices.com/Love-Advice/hi-girlyou-know-what-were-at-the-same-situationiam-a-girl-who-also-never-had-a-commitment-even-beforebut-for-the-first-time-i-fall-in-love-to-voice-on-one-man-i-never-use-to-knowyes-its-j|40</link>
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    <![CDATA[hi girlyou know what? were at the same situationiam a girl who also never had a commitment even beforebut for the first time i fall in-love to voice on one man i never use to knowyes its just only a voiceand i got more deeply in-love when i saw himhis charmoriginalityuniquenessand ability that every woman would ever dreamed ofuntil we move on the stage that weve become a good friendyesits just a friend how it hurts in my part that only friendshipall he can offer to mebut for do soi still accept it as a respectand i know i cant  do anything just to change his mindhow lucky you areyou have a chance to fight your felling to himgood for youjust dont give-upshow your felling to himhope it would help you to courage your self not to let go of your felling cause not all the time your in-loveby the way the man iam telling is a dj<br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/51/zheltin">zheltin</a><br />on 25-02-2010<br>Category: Love<br>Views: 18 | Online Advices: 1<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>my life well constantly change when i meet a girl who teach me how to love and being a religiousshe love me for who i am and what i ami have no problem with our relationship before until one day i c</title>
  <link>http://www.onlineadvices.com/Affair-Advice/my-life-well-constantly-change-when-i-meet-a-girl-who-teach-me-how-to-love-and-being-a-religiousshe-love-me-for-who-i-am-and-what-i-ami-have-no-problem-with-our-relationship-before-until-one-day-i-c|39</link>
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    <![CDATA[my life well constantly change when i meet a girl who teach me how to love and being a religiousshe love me for who i am and what i ami have no problem with our relationship before until one day i cought her with another guyin the whole that there been together first come in my mind there is something happen to themi decided to broke up our relationshipbut day by day passed she asking me a sorry of what her donebecause i love her so much i give her another chanceweve been together againbut everytime we have a sex i always thought how the guy kissed her and hug her and the feelings they fell in that timewhat should i do to forget what happen to them<br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/50/mclodz">mclodz</a><br />on 23-02-2010<br>Category: Affair<br>Views: 31 | Online Advices: 1<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>i called my guy friend a gay and teased him to a girl he is not really in love with then i laughed and not because i thought of him as a gay but i find his reactions funny then he got mad and said t</title>
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    <![CDATA[i called my guy friend a gay and teased him to a girl he is not really in love with then i laughed and not because i thought of him as a gay but i find his reactions funny then he got mad and said that i was lucky because he was getting along with my jokes and asked what kind of person i think he is i had been teasing him like that but this was the first time he became that angry since then he had never talked to me again i said sorry to him but he said that no more i really felt bad what should i do to repair our friendship? hes actually a nice guy really<br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/47/Takara tomodachi">Takara tomodachi</a><br />on 18-02-2010<br>Category: Friends<br>Views: 26 | Online Advices: 1<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>my license has been suspended due to upaid court fines but i am unemployed and dont get much to take care of my family so i cant afford to pay the creditors that hold the court fines  i need my licen</title>
  <link>http://www.onlineadvices.com/Stress-Advice/my-license-has-been-suspended-due-to-upaid-court-fines-but-i-am-unemployed-and-dont-get-much-to-take-care-of-my-family-so-i-cant-afford-to-pay-the-creditors-that-hold-the-court-fines--i-need-my-licen|34</link>
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    <![CDATA[my license has been suspended due to upaid court fines but i am unemployed and dont get much to take care of my family so i cant afford to pay the creditors that hold the court fines  i need my license to drive my family around and i cant afford to get caught without one  can anyone help me out by suggesting some way of getting my license back   <br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/44/reeny684">reeny684</a><br />on 12-02-2010<br>Category: Stress<br>Views: 57 | Online Advices: 2<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>i m a 31 year old female from india going through a very difficult phase of life i had an affair with a 25-year-old boy for 5-6 months and then suddenly he broke up with me and i am wondering what t</title>
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    <![CDATA[i m a 31 year old female from india going through a very difficult phase of life i had an affair with a 25-year-old boy for 5-6 months and then suddenly he broke up with me and i am wondering what to do now in the beginning everything was perfect i wanted him to commit but he said that he would marry me only if his parents agree otherwise not (he will not force them for anything because he adores them especially mother) i said okay and we continued at first he was a perfect guy i was searching for my whole life then he began to become emotionally distant (he left his job after 1 month of our affair and joined a college as a professor 1 month after) he used to text me only not calling (always had an excuse that he doesnt have time) we used to fight on this issue as i felt he dosnt love me deeply he used to deny that saying that only circumstances have changed there were a few things which hurt me deeply he is so close to his mum (he sleeps with her when she gets sick cancelled our date because of her controls me so that she can like me in india it is okay to live with parents even after marriage but he is so close to his mum whatever happens to his mum she always calls him instead of his father) i used to live up to his expectations always problems arise when i demanded equality in relationship i used to fight with him that he dosnt call me doesnt care me extra and wrote certain things (like i need a breakup etc several times but never meant it) he never changed for me i used to make all the compromises for him he is very career oriented also saying that he can leave everything for his career he used to think he always thinks right our fights increased day by day and one day he told me that he doesnt want to continue with me anymore saying that i am very controlling not at all understanding and that he talked abt marrying his choice of girl at home indirectly and his parents will never agree so its better to finish all these things but said give him 2-3 months may be things get change he needs time i get crazy i called him so many times sometimes he returned my calls but then dint i used to call him from diff numbers and then he said one day u r disturbing me but as he was talking to me sometime so i had a hope that everything wud be fine at the end then i got sick and asked him to drive me to doctor he said he is busy in donating blood somewhere (he used to dream about charity always) but then after he went to cyber cafe (i knew because he scraped me on orkut that day) when i confronted him with this he said dont u think i could have an urgent work i cried many times because of his behavior my mistakes are only that i wanted him to love me back in the way i used to love him on his bday i called him at 12 he was in a movie theater so he talked to me only 1-2 min and told me to put down phone saying that he was watching move i got frustrated on our meeting anniversary i wished him and he replied (by texting only) i requested him to start once again which he dint reply back sometimes he talks to me and sometimes doesnot i get confused what is this my friend also called him and told him to talk to me he said i will talk to her but i am busy with my mum right now

but after all this i still love him dont know why he is not ready to commit not ready to continue with me anymore but i decided not to call him and it is about 1 month now he dint call me in these days on sunday it is valentine he proposed me on last valentine and i am looking for his call for that day (my mistake was that whenever i fought with him i got crazy but i also loved him so much he knows that) and more importantly he behaved in the same way after he broke up with me he insulted me so many times (even when we were together that i cant drink water in a sophisticated way his mum will never like me mbas dont have anything to read he is mtech so he did a hard to work to get his eng degree etc etc i always felt he is right in everything losing my identity i guess he is an extreme case of mummys boy he never cares for what i think or feel

pls advise me what is all this is he narcissist? what shud i do now?<br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/43/reena sharma">reena sharma</a><br />on 12-02-2010<br>Category: Affair<br>Views: 60 | Online Advices: 2<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>i am a romanian citizen  i am in england since last year as an au-pair my papers had been rejected from homme office because ive made 28 years old what should i do to have a right to stay in th</title>
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    <![CDATA[i am a romanian citizen  i am in england since last year as an au-pair my papers had been rejected from homme office because ive made 28 years old what should i do to have a right to stay in this country legally<br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/39/pheonixbird33">pheonixbird33</a><br />on 27-01-2010<br>Category: Other<br>Views: 107 | Online Advices: 2<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>please help me i need all the advice i can i hav this friend at school thats been sticking on to me forever since summer his friends ditched him he lives in a homestay and is a loner im in grade</title>
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    <![CDATA[please help me i need all the advice i can i hav this friend at school thats been sticking on to me forever since summer his friends ditched him he lives in a homestay and is a loner im in grade 10 and so is he i felt sorta bad for him so i tried bein his friend befoe the break started now he made new friends but is still acting lik a stalker he would always call at least every 10 mins always talks to me on msnfacebook send me stupid emails lik hows i going on fb or msn my friends started avoiding me thinking tat were going out then his new friends told me that he was going to confess to me on our christmas party on the 24 i couldnt believe it but i did after i saw him at the mall picking out a gift at this store i rilli lik(it was a animeclothing store)nobody except me and my best friend goes there he practically new everything about me and even before i wen to the mall he asked me (on mobile on fb) wat i wanted for christmas i told him i wanted the new mokona modoki hat set with a scarf and mittens(christmas specia) and that thing is lik freakin60 dollars i saw him wlking out of the store with the bag he then he went to buy wrapping paper i asked him wat he did and he said he went christmas shopping for a friend of his o_o plz help me i lik him as a friend and all but hes just too much for me wat should i do to either prevent this or turn him down?<br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/20/Listen">Listen</a><br />on 21-12-2009<br>Category: Relationships<br>Views: 142 | Online Advices: 3<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>hello okay there a friend of mine (well not really a friend) has like these parents that make her do alot of studies they would expect stright as at school and tons of after school activities i th</title>
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    <![CDATA[hello okay there a friend of mine (well not really a friend) has like these parents that make her do alot of studies they would expect stright as at school and tons of after school activities i think that its comming to a point where she doesnt have time for friends and her a attitude really sucks sometimes when you talk to her she would just make a fake punch and walk away i have gone and asked a few people and i think that shes scared that if she doesnt do the work her parents will kill her this is really a problem because people cant talk to her properly and shes not acting like her self what can i do to help her get rid of this stress<br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/23/LinY">LinY</a><br />on 18-12-2009<br>Category: Stress<br>Views: 71 | Online Advices: 2<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>okay so there was lot of rumors at school about me and some boy  and now some of my friends arnt even talking to me i think its because that if they talk to me theyll be apart of tha</title>
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    <![CDATA[okay so there was lot of rumors at school about me and some boy  and now some of my friends arnt even talking to me i think its because that if they talk to me theyll be apart of that rumor now only some of my friends talk to me others just see me and walks away what should i do??<br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/26/zoey">zoey</a><br />on 16-12-2009<br>Category: Friends<br>Views: 92 | Online Advices: 3<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>  i accidentally made someone (one of my friends) like me but i dont like them back i know that its my fault and now i feel really sad and guilty about it and it seems that hes really sad about me r</title>
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    <![CDATA[  i accidentally made someone (one of my friends) like me but i dont like them back i know that its my fault and now i feel really sad and guilty about it and it seems that hes really sad about me rejecting him and im afraid that he might be in depression what should i do?<br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/24/Usagi">Usagi</a><br />on 16-12-2009<br>Category: Other<br>Views: 79 | Online Advices: 3<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>a few weeks ago my friend got jumped in an alley by 8 guys my friend was really pissed off because of the fact that i was bleeding heavily he recognize one of the guys and continuously been getting</title>
  <link>http://www.onlineadvices.com/Anger-Advice/a-few-weeks-ago-my-friend-got-jumped-in-an-alley-by-8-guys-my-friend-was-really-pissed-off-because-of-the-fact-that-i-was-bleeding-heavily-he-recognize-one-of-the-guys-and-continuously-been-getting|16</link>
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    <![CDATA[a few weeks ago my friend got jumped in an alley by 8 guys my friend was really pissed off because of the fact that i was bleeding heavily he recognize one of the guys and continuously been getting more people and have been jumping the person back twice already it seem to be getting out of hand and i m afraid my friend might go too far since he just got the information of all the other people how should i consult with him?<br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/19/EnumaElish">EnumaElish</a><br />on 02-12-2009<br>Category: Anger<br>Views: 94 | Online Advices: 1<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>my brother is almost 16 and he is secretly dating his ex english teacher who is 24 theyve been together for 2 months but my parents think he has been seeing a girl who is 16 and studies in another s</title>
  <link>http://www.onlineadvices.com/Relationships-Advice/my-brother-is-almost-16-and-he-is-secretly-dating-his-ex-english-teacher-who-is-24-theyve-been-together-for-2-months-but-my-parents-think-he-has-been-seeing-a-girl-who-is-16-and-studies-in-another-s|15</link>
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    <![CDATA[my brother is almost 16 and he is secretly dating his ex english teacher who is 24 theyve been together for 2 months but my parents think he has been seeing a girl who is 16 and studies in another school he didnt tell them because they wont accept his relashionship my parents just got divorced and the legal battle is still on so they are very agressive with each other in our contry his  girlfriend cannot be legally punished for he is old enough and their relashion is not considered illegal last night he told me the story and asked for advise and i dont know what to do he thought about telling our mom only but she has been depressed because of her divorce and im afraid this might be too much for her for her 16-year-old son is having sexual relashions with a 24-year-old woman what should i tell him to do?<br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/17/randomperson">randomperson</a><br />on 01-12-2009<br>Category: Relationships<br>Views: 80 | Online Advices: 4<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title> hi everyone well im a student of 18 years and i had to repeat a class this year due to some personal and financial problems this year i have met two girls with whom ive become friendly and quit</title>
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    <![CDATA[ hi everyone well im a student of 18 years and i had to repeat a class this year due to some personal and financial problems this year i have met two girls with whom ive become friendly and quite close but i didnt trust them enough though i love them as my good friends  the problem is that i have a boyfriend and i have a personal life that is my boyfriend and his friends are very close to me to the extent that we are a small family they have always supported me in my dire times and they have always been there for me even in my good times but my two friends girl sunny and chelly are very nice too the problem is that i never wish to mix my personal life that is my small family with my school mates for fear of further complications and intrusion since then i have always put my small family aside and my school friends as well but in september this year my brother has organised a surprise birthday party for me in which my small family and my two school friends sunny and chelly were invited to be honest i never told sunny and chelly about my relationship with my boyfriend i didnt trust them enough to disclose them about my small family  i have always posed my boyfriend as my elder cousin and i guess they doubted it but for the birthday party the guys didnt like the sunny and chelly they found the girls too cheap as they seemed to be excited at the least sight of the guys presence so they flatly ignored the girls and mostly showed concern for me to the extent that before leaving for home they kissed me but reluctantly shook hands with sunny and chelly since that day sunny was behaving quite strangely and kept asking me about the guys i didnt know what to do i tried to talk to my boyfriend about it and he requested me not to intrude the girls in our small family in case the girls wish to befriend them so i explained to sunny that my so-called cousin and his mates were not really willing to befriend her since then she has become very sarcastic with me then one day i was chatting with her and suddenly my elder cousin from england came to chat with me something very weird as he never liked to chat with me nor converse with me i found his ways of chatting with me quite strange as if he wanted to seek some confirmations about me indirectly in his talks in the end he asked me if i knew a girl named sunny as she added him and chatted with him gradually i realised that sunny chats with my cousin and tells him everything about me as my cousin is a kind of guy who likes to gossip and behaves like those cheap women i didnt like it and i nicely asked sunny to remove him from her account and not to chat with him i also told her that ill explain it to her later on in more details but she refused saying that my cousin is very nice to her i implored her to remove him but she refused and i told her to let it be and that she may keep him then she flatly told me not to treat her like a dog i was very hurt when she said this and since then i wave hello bye to her at school but i no more feel like keeping in touch with her like before i was very hurt though i apologised to her in case i have hurt her consciously or unconsciously as she has been of great support to me in some dire times i didnt want to ignore her yet she behaves strangely after some days i discovered that sunny has been gossiping and maligning me with my teacher i was damn hurt and i just felt like to never talk to her again but yesterday she chatted with me she was complaining that i was insulting her and chelly because i dont talk to them like before and i dont meet them she said so much harsh words to me she began talking of so many things like i dont talk to her not even during exams time - a lie - because ive talked to her and wished her best of lucks everytime we went for exams i also asked her why she waited till now to tell me all this and why she didnt told me what bothers her really at that time she told me it took her time i just felt like i didnt want to talk to her i dont know it was not at all that i wish to run away from anything but i feel very odd and very hurtful by her talks she began complaining that she has helped me  and she did this and that for me and so on  we both did so many things to please each other yet i have never complained about anything nor shall i do it now but it really hurts and in the end she began harassing me like a pest that she did this and that for me i just asked her to fuck off since she was getting on my nerves i was being nice to her but her sarcasm really upset me so i told her that if she was talking about insult then i recalled her about the matter of removing my cousin and how she spoke to me she flatly changed topic she kept on pestering me about what she did for me and i was fed up i just told her to fuck off since then she has told me so many hurtful things i was very hurt and told her that one of her ex-boyfriend was very right when he labelled her with so many bad names to characterless girl she was like on fire when i told her that and she also told me so many bad things which still hurts me but in the end i realised that i have not been wrong in posing my boyfriend as my elder cousin as sunny was very much interested in him i discussed this problem with my sibling and my small family they all told me that she is a frustrated girl who is simply jealous because my small family are not interested in her and she cant digest this at all since she doesnt hear from me for quite long she just needed an excuse to vent on her frustration on me by starting with some emotional blackmail to end up with great insults 

no matter what i guess it seems quite complicated but i want to know where my fault lies and to how far i have been greatly unfair to sunny and chelly i admit that they have been of great support to me in some dire times this is the reason i didnt want to ignore them though sunny hurt me initially with her talks but this time i want to know what to do because i dont want to hurt anyone i really feel guilty in case i have hurt her a lot i admit i have been at some moment quite rude especially when i told her in anger- fuck off

please help me 
thank you<br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/15/Taykto Meister">Taykto Meister</a><br />on 26-11-2009<br>Category: Friends<br>Views: 59 | Online Advices: 1<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>me and my best friends on da soccer team (we didnt need to tryout since not alot of ppl play so whoever wanna play is on da team) today was our first practice after practice she said shes tired unda</title>
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    <![CDATA[me and my best friends on da soccer team (we didnt need to tryout since not alot of ppl play so whoever wanna play is on da team) today was our first practice after practice she said shes tired und this isnt her kind of sport so shes gonna quit should i quit also ? i mean we was gonna play together but without her i feel kinda lonely on da other hand i dont want to cuz i really wanna play soccer if i quit cuz of her i feel dat shell be holding me baq help pls<br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/14/shelby03">shelby03</a><br />on 23-11-2009<br>Category: Friends<br>Views: 38 | Online Advices: 2<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>this is really important so please read  ok so basic ive been dating my girlfriend for 7months and i really adore her nothing at this point in time can change that but in a more recent turn of</title>
  <link>http://www.onlineadvices.com/Dating-Advice/this-is-really-important-so-please-read--ok-so-basic-ive-been-dating-my-girlfriend-for-7months-and-i-really-adore-her-nothing-at-this-point-in-time-can-change-that-but-in-a-more-recent-turn-of|12</link>
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    <![CDATA[this is really important so please read

ok so basic ive been dating my girlfriend for 7months and i really adore her nothing at this point in time can change that
but in a more recent turn of events here parents didnt want her dating me because im going off to college(mind you this is a community college so ill still be at home) they say everything would change because college is a diffrent scene and i would end up hurting her
so after this we basic were dating in secret but they knew we were still together but i just didnt come around for the last few weeks so i went to her house one day while here parents were at work so they came home so i had to run out the back door everything seemed fine untill today when she had to talk to her parents about something turns out it was about me because they same me leaving as they pulled up and now they have flipped so she says they say hes to old for you immature for his age different world no time im 18 soon to be 19 in like 6 months and shes 16 turning 17 in ten months
so im going to talk to here parent tommorow and i need to know what to say to change there minds because i cant let her get away like this
i need help please<br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/13/traveler99">traveler99</a><br />on 23-11-2009<br>Category: Dating<br>Views: 56 | Online Advices: 2<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>i have this guy friend and he and i have been friends for about 7 years now and i dont know what to do about him everytime he gets a girlfriend he turns into something noone want to be around if som</title>
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    <![CDATA[i have this guy friend and he and i have been friends for about 7 years now and i dont know what to do about him everytime he gets a girlfriend he turns into something noone want to be around if someone where to tell him about how he is acting he just get mad and doesnt want to listen to anyone he reciently started dating an old friend of mines daughter i didntknow about it until someone else text me and pretended to be this girl so i asked my friend if what was said true and at first he said it wasnt true then he finally said he was seeing this girl so i knew that he was lying to me when he said he was with his mom when i guessed and it was right that he was seeing someone i think she is all wrong for him she has adhd she bipolar and a bit mentally chalenged her mother likes to follow my friend and her daughter everywhere he never takes her out anywhere they always stay at her house when the mother found out the my friend had a crush on her daughter (at the time the daughter had a boyfriend) she would tell my friend everything her daughter and her boyfriend were doing even if they were having sex i think my friend is going out with this girl just to get sex because the week before my friend and this girl started going out he said to me that he missed his ex-girlfriend and having sex with herwhat do you think i also think he lying to her making her believe he loves her and he is also letting her hang out with the jerk that text message me garbage about them just so he can get sex from her so she thinks he really loves her i dont know how she would take it if she knew the truth i would love to have my friend back but i cant deal with what he is doing can you or anybody help me with this?<br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/12/morgan43">morgan43</a><br />on 23-11-2009<br>Category: Friends<br>Views: 35 | Online Advices: 1<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>how can i get my boy friend back? please help me</title>
  <link>http://www.onlineadvices.com/Loss-Advice/how-can-i-get-my-boy-friend-back-please-help-me|10</link>
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    <![CDATA[how can i get my boy friend back? please help me<br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/11/tootsie">tootsie</a><br />on 23-11-2009<br>Category: Loss<br>Views: 47 | Online Advices: 2<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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  <title>hi there i have a macedonian boyfriend hes doing a phd in holland thats where we met hes 26 im 25yo hes a nice guy he treats me very well and is very caring and loving hes a hard worker and we g</title>
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    <![CDATA[hi there i have a macedonian boyfriend hes doing a phd in holland thats where we met hes 26 im 25yo hes a nice guy he treats me very well and is very caring and loving hes a hard worker and we get on very well however he comes from a very poor country and family i have not met his family personally yet but honesstly i dont like the way they look the way they dressed up i dont know if this will bring problems in the future i sometimes feel embarrased to show pictures of his family to my family i also dont like sometimes the way he dresses up could you please advice me or tell me what are your thoughts thank you<br><br>Requested By: <a href="http://www.onlineadvices.com/member/10/crymeariver">crymeariver</a><br />on 23-11-2009<br>Category: Relationships<br>Views: 22 | Online Advices: 1<br/><br/><br /><hr>    ]]>
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